#ThrowBackThursday...loving yourself more can never get old!
Loving yourself is as easy as 1 2 3....
Using Numerology to appreciate and love yourself
You understand how important it is to love yourself, right? Those around you are a reflection of how you do that.
Take a moment and look at your life from this perspective. Close your eyes right now and take a look.
Are you getting all the love you want? Is your heart about to burst at the seems with all the love you are receiving? Or could you use a tad more?
As we get older we get better at loving and accepting ourselves. Part of this maturity comes from having children. They expand your heart in such a big way. Our children remind us we are all intrinsically good and easy to love.
What if you struggle to love yourself fully? That would be me. That is my struggle, still. It is a hard thing to admit. Most important though is realizing we could all love ourselves a bit more. Once we accept this we can move forward in doing so.
Often I see this resistance to self love and acceptance while giving readings. When I tell a client something true about themselves, they quickly dismiss what I am saying. This reaction reminds me of myself and I console myself with the hope they will accept the message at some point.
Recently I gave a reading to a 30/3, telling her she is social and her numbers indicated leadership. She laughed, “That is totally not me.” Later she admitted to being offered more responsibility at work and didn’t take it on out of fear. The reading I gave her changed her mind, not only that but after she took on more responsibility at work, she started a side hustle of running her own business. Beautiful!
Loving yourself fully is not easy. It requires you to be vulnerable. Most of all, it requires you to not give a shit about what people will say or think. They will get over it, and if they don’t, oh well. You have bigger fish to fry and can not let them hold you back.
Back in 2004, I had my first practice at doing what I needed to do to honor myself and not listen to others. I was still feeling a bit lost, even after graduating from college. A quote on my bulletin board nudged at me. The quote was about how moving forward meant you would be leaving others behind. The desire in me to move forward grew. It asked me to leave my home town and to end a relationship with a man I loved very much. Moving would upset some people, they were going to be angry, but I had to do it. In retrospect, I am so glad I listened to my inner voice.
So much can be gained when you get yourself into new, all be it, uncomfortable situations. Start small.
Here are a few suggestions based on your Numerology. First, use this formula to calculate your Health and Wellness Life Path.
Chart also available in my book, Say YES to Who You Are to Create FItness
Leadership and Weirdness
No matter where your 1 appears in your Health and Wellness Life Path you must find a place where you can be a leader, a place where you call all the shots. Focus on what makes you unique- this is hard to do, I know. Most often I ask my clients to consider what they think makes them weird- that is were you need to go, to your weirdness.
The fact that you are sensitive makes this really hard to tell you: Get over yourself. You are WAY to busy worrying about other people that you can’t see the forest through the trees. Your sensitivity is there for a reason, so you can tune into yourself, not others. Here is a new motto for you to live by:
Help, if asked, but only if you love the task.
Resentment will eat you alive if you do not start doing things you enjoy. You help no one by ‘doing’ anything that makes you angry, resentful, tired or irritated.
You 3’s can be kinda stubborn. This stubbornness is a helpful attribute when you have found creative outlets you enjoy doing and won’t give up. On the other hand, if your stubbornness insists on believing shit like; “I don’t have the money” or more famous, “I don’t have the time,” you’re in trouble. The creative expression that is the 3 needs to be expressed. If you have not experienced everyway and all ways to creatively express yourself, you might be one hot mess. You are full of creative energy that needs to be expressed. Find a way, now. A good place to start is by writing. Costs you nothing, you already have the tools. “Blah”, is what I call this exercise; set your timer for 5 minutes, write whatever comes to your mind. Even if it is, ‘nothing comes to my mind, this is stupid, I’m not a writer.’ Do this every day for a minimum of 2 weeks or follow the prompts in The Artists Way.
Please explore some ways to love on yourself, even if you are convinced you do a good job. You’ll be helping the Universe by sending out that loving energy.
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Love and Light,