The ABC's of Your 123's ~C is for Choices~

Important numerology for those with 3’s in their life path
3 Steps to Stop Wasting Time and Increase Productivity Using the Law of Choice

“We create in constructive ways, or we create in destructive ways;
either way, creative energy finds expression.”
Dan Millman The Life You Were Born to Live

My attempts to find out the origin and history of the Spiritual Laws had me running in circles. Historically, Buddha, Jesus and many others taught spiritual law in parables. Modern-day examples include Dan Millman’s twelve Spiritual Laws he discusses in relation to numerology and Deepak Chopra has seven Spiritual Laws of Success. The Law of Attraction was presented as a secret and the concept of spiritual laws has become a mainstream conversation. 

It is clear to me that people with a 3 in their Numerology will benefit from using the Law of Choice. They (We) can stop wasting time and increase productivity.  

Oracle Numerology Cards by Tricia Gunberg #3.jpg

What does the Law of Choices have to do with wasting time and increasing your productivity?

We make choices, minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day. By being aware of this we can harness the energy offered to us, as explained through numerology, to make the choices that serve our greatest and highest good.

I’ve learned some big lessons in the last decade of my life. Numerology has brought many of these lessons to me. The biggest lesson, so far,  is understanding the energy of the number 3. I see its constructive and destructive nature so clearly in myself and my clients. I often use the program Hoarders as an example of its energy. If you are not e x p r e s s i n g your creative energy you will become an episode of Hoarders. Your pent up creative energy can make you carry extra weight, create insomnia, reduce attention span, or party too much. Basically, you will be ‘carrying’ creative energy around, wreaking havoc and creating a mess! This number three could be the ENTIRE reason you waste time and are not productive.

We have a choice; we can choose to consider this creative energy and how we use it.

Good thing we have the Law of Choice on our side to help as well as these 3 steps to get us started.

 CHOICE – Courageously

Using the power of choice, we will explore these 3 steps:

Step 1 Understanding what time of day is best for you for each task on your list

Step 2 Turning off distractions
             (Especially if you have a number 3 in your Health and Wellness Life Path number.)

Step 3 Tapping into the energy of the day, month and year


Step 1
What time of day is optimal for each task?

If I had a hard work out at 6p.m., I wouldn’t be able to fall asleep until midnight. I can do a yoga class in the evening but not power walk, lift, or even do a dance class. My mind tends to turn off right around 2p.m. and it screams, “I need a nap.” If I don’t listen it says, “Okay, if we are working late today, I’d like a beer, a snack or a treat please.” Our body has natural rhythm, as does each individual person. Do you know what your rhythms are? When is the optimal time to write? When is it optimal time for you to exercise? Eat breakfast? Go to bed? This honors who you are so much! I cannot stress enough how important it is to understand these things about yourself. Many of my post include the tag; #sayyestowhoyouare, for this reason.

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Here is a list of ‘R’ words to get you started. When is the best time of the day for these important things?

                   Rest    Rejuvenate    Re-hydrate      Recreate     Restore   Recharge   Revenue

Step 2
Turn off and remove distractions

For the most part ‘multi-tasking’ is bullshit. It is an excuse to not be fully present. Did you see the video where the dad is ‘watching’ his son at the park? The dad is on his phone while some stranger kidnaps his son. This is your brain while multi-tasking: one of your projects is getting kidnapped. When your energy is not fully concentrating on what you are doing, you are sending out split energy, basically saying; “This is not important.” If it is not important, do not do it. If it is important, if you have integrity and you want jobs done to the best of your ability, turn off all distractions to attend to your task fully until it is complete.

Again, we go back to the Law of Choice. What will you choose? Turning off the distractions or using the distractions as an excuse to not get things done?

If you have a 3 in your Life Path, this will be especially difficult for you. Because your mind is so creative, it will be hard for you to see this tendency in yourself. If you also have a 7 in your Life Path, you’ll also be good at telling yourself little fibs to disguise this propensity in yourself.

Numerology of the number 7 "honesty"

Numerology of the number 7 "honesty"

The energy of three is a very creative force with much expression needing to come forth. There is so much you can accomplish, so many creative gifts you have to offer the world. Stay on task to complete your creative visions! You need not share all of them but, share them you must! Get on with it!

Removing Distractions

Is your home clean? Is your office organized? If not, this distraction can be stressing you out even if you prefer to believe it does not. Saucha is a limb of yoga regarding cleanliness. The idea of saucha is that the ‘old’ energy is sitting around and needs to be cleared out. I think this is where the stress comes from- this unfinished business is trying to get our attention. Your environment reflects your state of mind. What is your mind saying? What would you like it to say?

 If you want to balderdash yourself, you'll say you don’t have time. The ‘let it go’ advice does not apply here. As in, letting the dishes go until morning or letting the trash pile up. I used a meditation practice to help me with doing the dishes. I forced myself to recite all the good things about doing the dishes as a meditation. Abraham Hicks would call this a gratitude rant. It goes something like this:



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A Sticky Mess!

I love the hot water. Every time I turn on the faucet, hot water comes out.
I have clean water, right in my house.
I have deep sink with delicious smelling soap to get the bubbles just right.
I have dirty dishes because I have so much delicious food to eat.
I have delicious food to eat because we have jobs and can buy what we need.
My friend bought me these beautiful dishes and I love eating off of them.
My sister and mom buy me great tools for the kitchen that I want to keep clean.
I can peek at the beautiful sunset while doing the dishes in the evening.
I can get a lot done during commercials- most commercials are stupid anyway.

Now, when I hear myself say I don’t feel like doing the dishes, it feels disrespectful. So much goes into a dirty dish and having a nice kitchen, it doesn’t feel right to leave them unkepted. Maybe it is like parents who are bone tired but will take care of their children without complaining. You love them, they are a joy and you want to take good care of them because. Yes, because.

Oh, I all most forgot. The ‘time’ excuse. It literally (I do not like this over used and inappropriately used word but, it works here.) takes two commercials, sometimes three, to do all the dishes after dinner and wipe down the counter. That is 6 minutes. Six fricken minutes.
Give yourself permission to work on a few projects at a time. Limit them to 3 projects. Any projects you have not completed in a years’ time, apply the Law of Choice:

A)      Ask someone else to complete it.
You can hire someone.  Pass it on to a friend that has a similar interest. Perhaps a family member. For example, I had a family generation writing project I had wanted to do for five years. Finally, at a family get together, I made it a family project and we all had a good time working on it. Then I asked one family member to continuing it, she happily agreed.

B)      Chore chart- if it works, use one.
Understanding yourself better will help. Possibly there are some things you’re better at and vice versa.  Someone else could be more efficient at a chore. People are more inclined to volunteer and feels less like work if they like the task.

C)      Let it go.
Not all projects are meant to reach fruition. Sometimes we are too close to it when we first get the idea. We want so much for it to be successful. We desire our ‘break-out’ idea to launch us, but, we are simply too emotional about it. Trust that any project you let go of will come back to you when it’s ready.  Somethings are better if ignored for a long time: cheese, wine, whiskey, sauerkraut and your brilliant ideas. 

 Step 3 Tap into the energy of the day

Use Numerology to Find the Universal Energy of the Day (B is for Business for more)
This for me, is the best step. Having managed and practiced the first two steps, I now use the energy of each day to optimize my to-do list. If you have a list of things you need to accomplish for the month, like taxes, find the number on the calendar and use those days until the task is complete.

This feels both organized and free.

This ‘free-choice’ time works well for children and those with a 5 in their Health and Wellness path number. Having a list to choose from is liberating. If you’ve ever had to dress a toddler, you understand. As a nanny I discovered asking a toddler what they want to wear or telling them what to wear could create an hour-long negotiation. Magically offering a toddler two or three choices really works. 

Here is how to calculate the energy of the day. This is call Universal Day Energy, in numerology terms. It is calculated by adding all the digits of the date on the calendar. You can also get the Day energy for your personal birthday as well as the energy for your business. Book a reading with me or discover it for yourself by reading the article and/or go to B is for Business(link).

Here is how to calculate the Universal Day Energy for April 4, 2018

4+4+2+0+1+8 =  19=

4 + 4 + 2 + 0 + 1 + 8= 19

 1+9 = 10

(Current Month) + (Current Day) + (Current Year) = (Universal Day Number)


(______ +______) + (______ +______) + ( _____ + ______ + ______ + ______) =  _______


______ + ______ = ______ 

April, 4 2018 has the Universal Day Energy of the number 1. It is a good day to start new projects, make major decisions, take the lead, and aim for the top! For this is the energy of the number one. When adding, we reduce to a single digit and use the chart below to find the task that is best accomplished on this day. Each number 1-9, resonates with tasks we need to accomplish. Here are some examples of numbers and tasks:


                                                Energy of the 1-9 and Tasks

1-      Start new projects, make major decisions, take the lead, aim for the top

2-      Use emotions to connect with your clients, write copy, review your story (About Me)

3-      Socialize, express yourself artistically, find joy in your work, write

4-      Building your base, getting organized, create long term goals

5-      Tackle a task you have been putting off, travel, expect changes or create them

6-      Create harmony: improve your work area, take care of yourself, love on something that is frustrating you

7-      Research, learning, sharing your work, meditate on your work, save your work thrice, work outside

8-      Think: power, finance, marketing

9-      Use your business to help others. Bring things to a conclusion; finish up projects or let them go. 

 Using the Law of Choice and the energy of numbers we can accomplish our goals. Understanding we can make choices for our greatest and highest good.  By being aware we can harness the energy offered to us, as explained through numerology, to make the choices that serve us.

Here is to a life you chose!

Love and Light,

*Health and Wellness Life Path number is a term coined in “Say Yes to Who You Are to Create Fitness”. Add all the digits of your birthday to a double digit, adding them again.